About

Hi, I'm Niki

Speaker, Coach, and Founder of TheArtofSocializing.org

I help Christian women go from feeling stuck, overlooked, and socially anxious to becoming confident, connected, and full of clarity in every area of life.

Have you ever walked into a room and felt invisible, unworthy, or unsure of what to say?

That was me.

For years, I lived under the weight of loneliness, rejection, and insecurity. I believed the lie that I wasn't good enough — no matter how much I prayed or read my Bible. I saw others connect with ease, while I stayed stuck in fear, shame, and self-doubt.

It didn't matter that I wanted to change — I didn't have the mindset, the skillset, or the confidence to become the person I wanted to be.

Then everything changed.

I had a coach who helped me break free from the limiting beliefs and social fears holding me back. For the first time, I didn't just wish for confidence, I lived it.

I started building friendships.

Creating Community.

Experiencing and enjoying life again.

Showing up as the woman God created me to be.

That transformation lit a fire in me - and now, I've taken those powerful skills and built a faith-based framework to help women gain clarity, unlock their confidence, and live connected wherever life takes them.

About Niki, M.B.A.

After finishing her degree in Psychology and building a career in nonprofit fundraising and community relations, Niki spent nearly a decade studying how to network, socialize, and build authentic relationships in life and business. She's combined that experience with two Bible degrees and a passion for Jesus, people, and personal growth to create The Art of Socializing - a proven framework for connection that transforms lives from the inside out.

What Makes The Art of Socializing Unique?

Most people don't struggle with what they want.

They struggle with the confidence, plan, connections, and opportunities needed to get there.

Inside the Membership, Niki provides the mindset training, confidence training, and social skills training in a safe, supportive community to help you:

✨ Break free from fear and self-doubt
✨ Build meaningful relationships with ease
✨ Find clarity in your calling
✨ Show up confidently—without faking it
✨ Root yourself in your God-given identity

These skills aren’t taught in school, church, or the workplace, and most women were never shown how to build them. Yet they’re essential for health, happiness, success, and fulfilling relationships.

The Problem We Have to Solve Together

Loneliness and social anxiety are stealing joy, purpose, and health from women everywhere. In 2023, the former U.S. Surgeon General called it a crisis — and I believe you and I are being called to respond.

The world doesn’t need more perfect women. It needs more authentic ones—women who are confident in who they are, rooted in Christ, and capable of meaningful connection.

The Promise

Inside The Art of Socializing, you’ll learn a practical and powerful path to become that woman:

✅ Clear in your identity
✅ Confident in conversation
✅ Connected to others
✅ Courageous in every room you walk into

"She looked in the mirror and saw who she was, and who she was becoming. That woman was breathtaking. Her beauty was contagious." - Niki McIntosh

Your Transformation Starts Here

You were made for connection. You were created to be seen, known, and loved—not stuck in self-doubt or hiding your light.

The world needs who God created you to be.

Let’s create something better —together.

- Niki

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Here's what others are saying:

Niki McIntosh is one of the best social coaches I've ever met. Her remarkable ability to grasp the dynamics of any demographic in any social situation is truly impressive. I've seen her excel in both personal relationships and professional environments, including nonprofit organizations, small businesses, and university settings. With a wealth of experience, she brings the awareness, confidence, sensitivity, and drive essential for anyone to effectively sell themselves and their mission. Niki is an exceptional communicator with a gift for teaching these skills to anyone willing to learn. You would be fortunate to have her on your team or as your coach!

- Anna Weddle, Weddle and Sons Roofing